Me and Steve Harvey

Steve Harvey

No !!!
I never met Steve Harvey, and no I don't have a picture with me and him on it. There's him, then there's me...
But, I will tell you this...


Then there's me...

Many things that Steve Harvey says, I can agree too. And for that, I can say we are on the same page here.

Have you ever watched "The Steve Harvey show", it's hilarious and mostly always inspirational. If you haven't watched the show yet, What planet are you?

On one of his shows he mentioned something that really had me thinking. It was that strong! He said this, and it is so true.
I want you to think about it and go with it!

WOMAN MAYBE YOU NEED TO WALK???
There is only one woman that a man will change for....meaning, if you are with a man that, cheats on you, beats on you, and does you no good, you have to have enough self worth to realize that you don't deserve that. Men need us women! To be able to have kids, to be that companion that they need, that support system that his friends can't give him. They need our tender care, our home cooked meals, our house skills, they need us for many, many reasons. The bible says: Then the Lord God said: "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him." Genesis 2:18

With that said; If the man you're with does you no good, you need to pray about it, but then talk to him at a moment that he is calm, and I say talk not nag, there's a big difference.
Let him know exactly what it is that he is doing that is making you unhappy and give him a chance to change. Give it about a month, then if he is still doing the same things, come back to him again when he is in a happy mode, and talk to him about those same issues again, this time giving an ultimatum. But, you need to realize that by doing this you may stay together or you may end up splitting. If your partner is serious about being with you, he will do what your asking, afraid to lose you. If you are not the right one for him, he will let you go. Sometimes you leaving is what it takes for him to realize that you are serious with what you demanded he change. And if he can't be without you, believe me....he'll come running back, changed!

I was scared!

“How to Date God’s Way” is to clarify the how to’s of dating.

In this world of today, dating is only dating when long kisses are involved, sex, and the permission to touch all areas of your partners body. A lot of people who supposedly call themselves Christians have also fallen into this worldly trap that satan has invented. There is only one true way to date and that would be 'God’s way', according to what is written in the Bible.

 

What inspired me to create this blog is the simple fact that there aren’t many books out there to teach a true Christian how to date. Many people don't know what can be done while dating and what should be saved for marriage only, like sex.

 Sure....Most people heard the term "Sex is for marriage only", and some do try to save it for marriage only, but along the way they somehow give up on that concept all together. They give in! So we can say; that's easy to say and hard to do. 

 Sometimes there are questions that need to be answered but we get embarrassed to ask someone. We can’t ask a friend because the answer a friend might give us is most likely to be worldly.  Then we are left with unanswered questions and risk doing what's wrong because we are afraid or too proud to ask someone who can help us. So, we prefer to go day by day doing things our way, and dating the best way we know how 'Our way'! We try not to make it noticeable to others that we don't know what we are doing. We fear that they might think we aren't spiritual enough to figure it out on our own.

My sister and I were in this situation. We had many questions about our relationship because this was the very first time we dated. We didn't want to make any mistakes and end up embarrassing our selves and God. We really liked our boyfriends and didn't want to do anything stupid to end up loosing them. We were in a relationship and scared; very scared! We really didn't  have a clue on how to do this. We were so clueless.

Thankfully God gave us a very wise mother who is a pastor’s wife in the Universal Church of the Kingdom of God. She is the one who taught us the basics on what to do while dating and what should be saved for marriage only.

Everything she taught us was based on a scripture from the bible, God used her to teach us. We swallowed in all the information given to us and were longing for more. Going into a relationship, we felt as an eight-month-old infant being taught to walk without a walker, thankfully for our mom we had a little help on walking. What I find stunning is the fact that there are many women and men alike, who don’t even have the little help we had; the basics going into a relationship. We had a pastor’s wife as a mom since we were four years old. How about those women and men who came into the church on their own and their families want nothing to do with God. They seek this spiritual help in the church and become free from their problems, through God they find deliverance and happiness. Now; along comes this special someone whom they find themselves spiritually and physically attracted to...their Prince Charming or Cinderella. But they don’t know what to do not even a CLUE.

 In this blog you will find everything I learned on how to date. The do’s and don’ts, the wise sayings and inspirations, the instructions from my parents, the verses in the bible that talk about these things and so on.

So keep posted......!

Dedicated to:

Here you will find "Quick and easy guidelines to having a successful Christian relationship 'God's way' until marriage".

 

Dedicated to:

This blog is dedicated to everyone who is single and looking for the right one, for those who are dating and are unsure if they are with the right one, and for those who ask 'What is dating God's way ?'

 

To my cousins Jenny and Michelle who were by our (my sister and I) side and know how hard we fought to achieve our men of God. We pray that you can wait in the Lord just like we did.

I would like to thank my Mom and Dad who were always there for us when we needed them. Bishop Macedo and Bishop Francisco who were used by God to help bring to us our men of God.

 

Thank You!

 

 

Learning How to date. God's way!

Hello and welcome to

'HOW TO DATE GOD'S WAY'

In this blog, you will learn how to date the right way. Dating the way God intended for it to be.

You will get my hands down experience from what I did while dating. I will also share with you lots of examples of other couples I know that dated God's way and today they are happy, with the love of their life by their side.

Think about it.... there are too many people dating their own way now a days. Not knowing right from wrong. Even Christians!

You may think you are dating the correct way before God, but yet you may not be!

Most of the times you may not know what God expects from dating. There are too many opinions on how people think you should date, when there is only one real way to date

and that's GOD'S WAY!

I invite you to join me in my life's journey on what I did whilst dating.
Learn all the pro's and con's of dating
Find out what's right before God's eyes and what's not

Finally! Help has arrived

I overcame peer pressure, I over came the hormones that go rushing through your body while dating. I overcame it all to make sure I did this God's way.

I knew that dating right, dating God's way, was going to take my love life somewhere. I knew that doing this the right way, I wasn't going to be disappointed.

I knew that listening, and following through with dating God's way was going to have its rewards.

And it did!

Today I can say, I have been happily married for 8 yrs to a God fearing man. I married my first boyfriend.

Not to many people can say that....