Now can we KISS ???

 

To be able to kiss your partner is something very special.

 

   Gentlemen, when you kiss your lady, this is a seal of your relationship, it tells your lady that you’re in love with her and you’ve truly found your soul mate. This is why you cannot rush things, you can’t just kiss her because you think her lips are beautiful or because you want to experiment kissing. NO! Until this point you were only talking, when you kiss, then it seals this relationship as boyfriend/girlfriend, as sex is a seal of marriage. Once the two of you have kissed you are officially dating and are boyfriend/girlfriend, before you kiss you aren’t boyfriend/girlfriend, you are just friends getting to know each other. After you have kissed, you are boyfriend/girlfriend seeking a lifetime relationship that will be sealed through marriage. So, don’t rush things. Gentlemen, when you’ve spoken to your pastor and your pastor gave you the ok to kiss your girl, then that means its ok by God for you to kiss your girl, in this way it wouldn’t be considered a sin.

   The reason why we’re addressing all the moves to the gentlemen, such as holding hands and especially kissing is because this job is for the man, for a woman to take lead and grab her partners hands when going out for the first time is too bold and should be avoided. Especially kissing, a woman doesn’t just go and kiss her partner on the lips first, that’s a no, no. The gentleman being a man is the one to make that move, this is part of his masculinity, his ego. So be patient, pray and wait on him also, Both of you should keep your pastor informed on your relationship at all times.

 

    Gentlemen when you are certain that you like this woman and you intend to take things further in this relationship, then you can kiss but it is always best to inform your pastor of your plans just to avoid the devils traps. After that is when you make your move. Find the right time to kiss her when there are not much people around. It can be on your next date or if you can find a way to think of something you could do to see her that day then do it. If you want, you can wait until the next date and kiss her hand to see her reaction first before you actually kiss her lips...

Just avoid being completely alone. Make sure there are at least a few people around to prevent the two of you from sinning.