How to get my man's attention?

Women can be soooo needy!

In general, women tend to always want attention from their man. We want time spent on us by receiving all the 'I love you's and the pampering. But we also want time spent with us; All the time.

At times we can seem selfish and un comprehensive. Most of the times a man won't understand why his woman is so needy, always asking for attention. We women sometimes just don't get it! Sometimes it just doesn't click! And we become that nagging woman. 
NO ONE wants a nagging woman! 
This is the number one reason he may be avoiding you. Nagging is a complete turn off for men.

My man

This month I decided to do something a bit different. I decided to "cater to my man". I made more of an effort to give my darling husband all of my attention. Because what happens is sometimes we focus only on what we want and we don't look around us to what he wants or needs to be done. So I decided to give my husband the upmost attention this month. I made his favorite foods, I ironed ALL his clothes for him to be able to pick from. I always had the house clean and organized so that when he came home the house was a cozy spot "Home sweet home" Everything right down to the dog! I would dress him all up and brush him and make him look all cute for when my husband came home. 

Chicken & Broccoli served with brown rice

Chinese chicken & Broccoli

My dog
'Snowball'

I went out my way this month to show my husband how much I cared. And in return, he automatically gave me his attention and care. This is the key to your man's heart ladies!

Cater. To. Your. Man!
And in return, he'll cater to you!

What's my complex ? (5)

• Complex about age – Some say ‘I’m not a spring chicken anymore.’ I’m well over my marrying years, no one will want me now; I’m too old. I have an entire head of gray hair. I’m in my 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70's. Or I’m too young I cant find true love now because no one will take me seriously, I’m too young to be happy and find true love. You wonder, how can you find true love when you're getting older and older each year and everyone now a days is looking for young love. You fear you won't be able to find someone compatible to you.

As you can see in the pic above, Love can come to anyone who put's their complexes aside. Even if you are in your 90's.

What's my Complex? (4)

• Complex about nationality – Some complexes are because of the person’s nationality. Some people think no one will like me because I am African or Latin, Caribbean or Asian, Greek or European, Egyptian or Indian. I'm not as pretty Beyonce because I'm not black. I'm not as handsome as Channing Tatum because I'm not white. No one will want me. As ridiculous as this may sound It’s true! I know someone who thinks just like this. Sometimes this even creates low self esteem because you don't think people from other nationalities will like you.

What's my Complex? (3)

• Complex about background - Some people’s complex is the lifestyle they use to live. They're mentality is ‘no one will ever fall in love with me because of my background’ "if they find out about my past they won't want to be with me." 'I was married before and my marriage failed' or "I am pregnant or I have a child/children". 'I did some bad things in the past', "I am incapable of keeping a relationship", 'I've been single for so long.....and so on

What's my complex? (2)

• Complex about weight - Others have complexes about their weight, its either I weigh too much or I weigh too little. I need to put on some weight because I am disappearing, or I need to loose weight before it becomes dangerous for my own health. "I'm too fat and nobody will love me" or "I'm too skinny  and all people see in me is bones"

Stop by tomorrow for "What's my complex? (3)?

What's my Complex?

One thing I've noticed, is that many people are hindered or held back from finding true love because of their own complexes. I have seen with my own eyes and have known people that could have been or could still be blessed in their love life but they aren’t. Not because the devil is blocking their love life but instead it is because of their own complexes that they impede God from blessing them or giving them the man or woman of their dreams. These people need to seriously (Get Rid of their complexes). If they don’t they will remain single forever and will never be able to go forward in life. In all aspects especially in their love life.

   People I have known have complexes in many different ways,  there are many different types of complexes that exist. I will name a few:

• Complex about appearance - some people’s complex is the way they look whether it is their hair, eyes, nose, lips, hands, feet, body shape, ears or anything else they can imagine. They have a general complex about the way they look. Their thought is ` No! I have nappy hair, or my hair is too short  or too thin and brittle. My eyes are too wide apart from each other or too close together. I’m too black or too white. I have a big, crooked or flat nose, my lips are too big or I have no lip its just a line. My hands and feet are so small or too big, I have no figure or I have too much of a figure. I’m too short or I’m too tall, my ears are too small or too big. My head is an awkward shape or every other complaint about their appearance imaginable.

come back tomorrow for the next complex thats out there !

24 hours in a day

   Don’t slow your role, because you know have someone. Instead keep going, doing more for God. But as necessary with all things have a balance. Don’t spend all your time with your partner that you don’t have time for God, but also don’t stay in church all day that you end up not spending time getting to know your partner better. Find time for everything. There are 24 hours in a day, enough time for it all.  No matter how busy you are, you just need to balance it out.  In the Bible a wise King called King Solomon once wrote about this subject; read (Ecclesiastes 3: 1-8). By doing all of these things your partner will see in you a strong character, one that represents the Almighty God you serve. This will only put more of an assurance in his/her heart that you are of God.

   When His light shines in you, it is impossible to be covered. “You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lamp stand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your father in heaven.” Matthew 5: 14 – 16 (NKJ). By seeing your goodness or good deeds, your partner will praise God for having you. But in everything you do, do all things for God and not for men. “Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men,” Ephesians 6:7 (NIV).

   Do these things yes because they are necessary, but not to show off to men what you are doing and supposedly how great of a person you are. Not to show your pastor, your friend, your current girlfriend or boyfriend not to show to anyone, for credit. The credit of anyone in this world is not worthed, compared to the rewards of God. Doing that for physical praise is pride, and pride is not of God, so be careful. Do it with a sincere heart of a humble and true servant who wants to glorify God in Spirit and in Truth.