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| What a little make up can do |
You don’t need to tell anyone else
about your deep dark secrets, but you do need to talk about it to your partner (this is assuming you spoke to God about it too). Your partner has every right to know. Don't hide anything, be honest and sincere no matter how bad it was or how much it
hurts. This is not someone who is going to sit there and judge you; this is
someone who is trying to find out about you to be able to make you happy. Let
your partner know what your likes and dislikes are in everything, but most importantly, in a
relationship. Don't be nervous, act yourself so your partner can see who you are,
don’t try to be someone you are not.
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| Fat can be transformed into muscles |
When I met Leonardo I was a little nervous, it’s normal to be
nervous because this is something new. However, I remembered I had to calm down
and act myself so Leonardo could know the type of person I really am. I don’t
think he was nervous, and if he was, he didn’t show it. He was the one that
made me laugh and helped me calm down. I still remember when I first met him,
my parents were by my side and I was just standing there while everyone else
was sitting down, then he said “Please, Elsie come sit here next to me.” Oh
man, I thought I was going to die, I was so nervous that I sat next to him but
I began playing with my hair, I began getting itchy, I began to fix my skirt
and dusting off my shoes, I began doing so much things. Then he saw that I was
nervous and said “Elsie, what’s wrong, are you nervous?” and I said “Yes, just
a little” so he smiled and said “Its ok, relax, there is nothing to be nervous
about” that helped me to calm down and I wasn’t nervous
anymore.
When this special someone comes to you, it's
normal for you to start checking him/her out but don't start judging.
Have you
ever heard that phrase – Don’t judge a book by its cover?
This means, don't judge your partner by what you expected of him/her. Maybe to you, the woman of your dreams is suppose to have thick eyebrows and the partner God gave you has thinner eyebrows
then you expected, maybe in your dreams your partner has 20/20 vision but the one
God gave you wears glasses, maybe you wanted a man with a tremendous six pack
and big biceps and God gave you a man fifteen pounds overweight; does this
mean that God messed up and gave you the wrong partner?
Of course not! Looks can be deceiving!
What counts the most is what is
on the inside. Of course, appearance is also important for a woman and man of
God, but in first place comes Spirituality. Don’t judge your partner by what you
see and dislike, but instead look for things in him/her that you DO like. The
things you like will overpower the things you don’t really like.
Thin eyebrows can grow out to become thicker eyebrows, glasses can be replaced with
contact lenses, fifteen pounds overweight can be transformed into a tremendous
six pack and big biceps through exercise and lifting weights.
Look for things
you like, like the character and the way he/she talks to you, their dedication in
doing the work of God, the way he/she treats you, anything! Remember, whatever you
dislike can always be fixed with a change of hair do, a little lifting
weights, a little make -up and so on. Don’t let this bother you, put the spirituality
first because this is what’s hard to find.
