- Complex about background - Some people’s complex is the lifestyle they use to live. They're mentality is ‘no one will ever fall in love with me because of my background’ "if they find out about my past they won't want to be with me." 'I was married before and my marriage failed' or "I am pregnant or I have a child/children". 'I did some bad things in the past', "I am incapable of keeping a relationship", 'I've been single for so long.....and so on
