To be able to kiss your partner is something very special.
Gentlemen, when you kiss your lady, this
is a seal of your relationship, it tells your lady that you’re in love with her
and you’ve truly found your soul mate. This is why you cannot rush things, you
can’t just kiss her because you think her lips are beautiful or because you
want to experiment kissing. NO! Until this point you were only talking, when
you kiss, then it seals this relationship as boyfriend/girlfriend, as sex is a
seal of marriage. Once the two of you have kissed you are officially dating and
are boyfriend/girlfriend, before you kiss you aren’t boyfriend/girlfriend, you
are just friends getting to know each other. After you have kissed, you are
boyfriend/girlfriend seeking a lifetime relationship that will be sealed
through marriage. So, don’t rush things. Gentlemen, when you’ve spoken to your
pastor and your pastor gave you the ok to kiss your girl, then that means its
ok by God for you to kiss your girl, in this way it wouldn’t be considered a
sin.
The reason why we’re addressing all the
moves to the gentlemen, such as holding hands and especially kissing is because
this job is for the man, for a woman to take lead and grab her partners hands
when going out for the first time is too bold and should be avoided. Especially
kissing, a woman doesn’t just go and kiss her partner on the lips first, that’s a no,
no. The gentleman being a man is the one to make that move, this is part of his
masculinity, his ego. So be patient, pray and wait on him also, Both of you should keep your
pastor informed on your relationship at all times.
Gentlemen when you are certain that you like
this woman and you intend to take things further in this relationship, then you
can kiss but it is always best to inform your pastor of your plans just to
avoid the devils traps. After that is when you make your move. Find
the right time to kiss her when there are not much people around. It can be on
your next date or if you can find a way to think of something you could do to
see her that day then do it. If you want, you can wait until the next date and
kiss her hand to see her reaction first before you actually kiss her lips...
Just
avoid being completely alone. Make sure there are at least a few people around to
prevent the two of you from sinning.
