Amen! The two of you have now been sealed into a relationship that will end in marriage if you continue doing everything the way you're supposed to.
Now, kissing is the biggest part of your relationship. When you go out you may kiss, when you meet up with your girlfriend/ boyfriend you may kiss and so on. Woman, after you have received your first kiss, you may now make moves to kiss your boyfriend whenever you feel like it. He will actually like it for you to make moves of your own in an effort to kiss him since in the beginning all the pressure was on him to make all the moves. But now it’s ok for you to kiss him when you feel like it, or hold his hands and so on. Try your very best to be discreet while kissing, you don’t want to kiss in the middle of the church hall with everyone looking at you. That would be disrespectful to everyone around you. You don’t want to be in front of people kissing while everyone is looking at you. It is hard to be discreet when you cannot be alone with your partner, but for now, that is how it has to be so “…sin is not lacking…” Proverbs 10:19 (NKJ). Kiss, but do not go overboard, too much of anything is not good. For now because you aren’t married yet so until then hold your emotions back a little. Kiss, but moderately, and with self control, respect and discretion.
Respect your body for it is the temple of the Holy Spirit. In a dating relationship you must give the tithe of your body, this tithe goes on until the day the two of you get married. NO TOUCHING!! until the two of you make a vow on the altar of God to love, respect, and cherish each other, mainly to serve and glorify God with your lives for as long as you shall both live. Tithe is very important in this relationship. This type of tithe goes until the day the two of you get married. Again, NO TOUCHING! This is the most important thing. When you fail in this; you have lost God’s trust and will lose your partner
Most importantly, you will loose your
salvation. PAY ATTENTION! This is the main purpose of this blog. The main
reason why many Christians dating have lost their partner and their salvation.
When
the two of you begin kissing, there is a spark between you, a spark that feels
good and every inch of your body wants to go further. But, you must gain control
over yourself and rebuke it from going any further than just kissing. If the
two of you are kissing and you feel as if you are not capable of holding
yourself any longer, then speak to your partner and refrain from kissing a
little while until you can gain control over yourself again. Now is when you really
have to start dating in even better populated areas. This spark becomes
stronger and stronger and harder to control. This spark is called love. You are falling in love and
it’s a good thing but very dangerous. Listen carefully to when your partner says
‘I think we should stop’ or if you feel you are kissing a little too much, then stop yourselves for a while
then go back later. Your partner isn’t going anywhere he’s/she’s
yours. Take a break from kissing every few minutes; try to talk more
than you kiss.
