The reason why we tend to First
look at things in our partner that we dislike, is because we get nervous. We know
that this is something that will affect us for the rest of our lives.
Therefore, we start trying to protect ourselves by judging the one God chose
for us.
Don’t worry, God has everything
under control. You will fall in love. Maybe the same thing happened when your
partner first set eyes on you. Everything will work out just fine. God has a plan for
all of us. He chose your partner for you and you for your partner. If you still feel
nervous about it, pray, ask God to help you trust in Him, ask Him to help you
fall in love and to stop looking at what you don’t like but to help you look at
what you do like. Because physical attraction is also very important.
As mentioned before, prayer brings the result to everything. Maybe the
type of clothes your partner likes to wear is not the type of clothes you like for him/her to wear, but
he/she is a sweet person and very handsome/beautiful. Are you going to dump
that person just because of a difference in taste.
Of course not!
Style is
something that can always be altered but it’s not always that you can find such
a sweet person full of the Holy Spirit. Later on into the
relationship, pray, then little by little you can talk to your partner about it
and because the two of you will be so much in love he/she will start to change
just for you and it would be more of a pleasure then an obligation for your
partner to do this for you.
