Me and Steve Harvey

Steve Harvey

No !!!
I never met Steve Harvey, and no I don't have a picture with me and him on it. There's him, then there's me...
But, I will tell you this...


Then there's me...

Many things that Steve Harvey says, I can agree too. And for that, I can say we are on the same page here.

Have you ever watched "The Steve Harvey show", it's hilarious and mostly always inspirational. If you haven't watched the show yet, What planet are you?

On one of his shows he mentioned something that really had me thinking. It was that strong! He said this, and it is so true.
I want you to think about it and go with it!

WOMAN MAYBE YOU NEED TO WALK???
There is only one woman that a man will change for....meaning, if you are with a man that, cheats on you, beats on you, and does you no good, you have to have enough self worth to realize that you don't deserve that. Men need us women! To be able to have kids, to be that companion that they need, that support system that his friends can't give him. They need our tender care, our home cooked meals, our house skills, they need us for many, many reasons. The bible says: Then the Lord God said: "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him." Genesis 2:18

With that said; If the man you're with does you no good, you need to pray about it, but then talk to him at a moment that he is calm, and I say talk not nag, there's a big difference.
Let him know exactly what it is that he is doing that is making you unhappy and give him a chance to change. Give it about a month, then if he is still doing the same things, come back to him again when he is in a happy mode, and talk to him about those same issues again, this time giving an ultimatum. But, you need to realize that by doing this you may stay together or you may end up splitting. If your partner is serious about being with you, he will do what your asking, afraid to lose you. If you are not the right one for him, he will let you go. Sometimes you leaving is what it takes for him to realize that you are serious with what you demanded he change. And if he can't be without you, believe me....he'll come running back, changed!