By this time, the two of you should
have already been on a few dates and exchanged phone numbers. You should
already know a lot about your partner, now its time to break the ice. Call your
partner everyday if possible, ask when is the best time to call. Speak to him/her
for a few minutes everyday until your next date, there is nothing wrong with
calling everyday, in fact this should be done to get you two comfortable with
each other. Make conversation, a dialogue with the two of you talking and not just
one of you talking the whole time. Make this a habit because this is what is going to be going on everyday
until the two of you getmarried. Conversation helps you stay in touch with what is going on in each others life daily and it also helps you two fall in love a lot quicker. It’s almost like being on a date everyday. If you both are in the same church and you see each other everyday, then that’s ok, if you have time during the day to talk, then talk. But if your working hard and only have time to say a quick Hi, for a short time then that’s not considered talking, so you should call each other at the best time and talk for just a few more minutes. Ask how was their day, what new things did they learn from the bible, talk to your partner and tell him/her that you were thinking about them and can’t wait to see him/her, and so on. Show your excitement and interest towards them.
GENTLEMAN
this time take your lady to a
better place such as the movie to see a comedy or action. Talk to her
during the week and converse with her on where she would like to be taken on
the next date. Ask her to prepare a little snack and take her to the park for a
little picnic. Go to a simple amusement park where there are roller coaster
rides or to a local fair. This time, make the move to hold her hands. Start of slow. She may
probably start to giggle and become shy, but that’s a good thing as long as you
are the one making the moves. Hold her hands first. Make that a routine thing to do in public. Bring her close to you and hold her hands. That's about all for now. Don't rush into things....First just hold her hands.
As always, hold the doors for her and let her go
first, make her feel like a princess. Tell her how beautiful you think she is,
tell her what you like about her like her hair or her eyes, her feet, her
hands, her arms, her personality, the way she laughs etc, whatever you like
about her, now is the time to let her know.
