“How to Date
God’s Way” is to clarify the how to’s of dating.
In this world of today, dating is
only dating when long kisses are involved, sex, and the permission to touch
all areas of your partners body. A lot of people who supposedly call
themselves Christians have also fallen into this worldly trap that satan has
invented. There is only one true way to date and that would be 'God’s
way', according to what is written in the Bible.
What inspired me to create this blog is the
simple fact that there aren’t many books out there to teach a true Christian
how to date. Many people don't know what can be done while dating and what
should be saved for marriage only, like sex.
Sure....Most people heard the term "Sex is for
marriage only", and some do try to save it for marriage only, but along
the way they somehow give up on that concept all together. They give in! So we
can say; that's easy to say and hard to do.
Sometimes there are questions that need to be answered
but we get embarrassed to ask someone. We can’t ask a friend because
the answer a friend might give us is most likely to be worldly. Then we are
left with unanswered questions and risk doing what's wrong because we are
afraid or too proud to ask someone who can help us. So, we prefer to go day by
day doing things our way, and dating the best way we know how 'Our way'! We try
not to make it noticeable to others that we don't know what we are doing. We
fear that they might think we aren't spiritual enough to figure it out on our
own.
Thankfully God gave us a very wise mother who is a
pastor’s wife in the Universal Church of the Kingdom of God. She is the one who
taught us the basics on what to do while dating and what should be saved for
marriage only.
Everything she taught us was based on a scripture from
the bible, God used her to teach us. We swallowed in all the information given
to us and were longing for more. Going into a relationship, we felt as an
eight-month-old infant being taught to walk without a walker, thankfully for
our mom we had a little help on walking. What I find stunning is the fact
that there are many women and men alike, who don’t even have the little help we
had; the basics going into a relationship. We had a pastor’s wife as a mom
since we were four years old. How about those women and men who came into the
church on their own and their families want nothing to do with God. They seek
this spiritual help in the church and become free from their problems, through
God they find deliverance and happiness. Now; along comes this special someone
whom they find themselves spiritually and physically attracted to...their
Prince Charming or Cinderella. But they don’t know what to do not even a CLUE.
In this blog you will
find everything I learned on how to date. The do’s and don’ts,
the wise sayings and inspirations, the instructions from my parents, the
verses in the bible that talk about these things and so on.
So keep
posted......!
