I was scared!

“How to Date God’s Way” is to clarify the how to’s of dating.

In this world of today, dating is only dating when long kisses are involved, sex, and the permission to touch all areas of your partners body. A lot of people who supposedly call themselves Christians have also fallen into this worldly trap that satan has invented. There is only one true way to date and that would be 'God’s way', according to what is written in the Bible.

 

What inspired me to create this blog is the simple fact that there aren’t many books out there to teach a true Christian how to date. Many people don't know what can be done while dating and what should be saved for marriage only, like sex.

 Sure....Most people heard the term "Sex is for marriage only", and some do try to save it for marriage only, but along the way they somehow give up on that concept all together. They give in! So we can say; that's easy to say and hard to do. 

 Sometimes there are questions that need to be answered but we get embarrassed to ask someone. We can’t ask a friend because the answer a friend might give us is most likely to be worldly.  Then we are left with unanswered questions and risk doing what's wrong because we are afraid or too proud to ask someone who can help us. So, we prefer to go day by day doing things our way, and dating the best way we know how 'Our way'! We try not to make it noticeable to others that we don't know what we are doing. We fear that they might think we aren't spiritual enough to figure it out on our own.

My sister and I were in this situation. We had many questions about our relationship because this was the very first time we dated. We didn't want to make any mistakes and end up embarrassing our selves and God. We really liked our boyfriends and didn't want to do anything stupid to end up loosing them. We were in a relationship and scared; very scared! We really didn't  have a clue on how to do this. We were so clueless.

Thankfully God gave us a very wise mother who is a pastor’s wife in the Universal Church of the Kingdom of God. She is the one who taught us the basics on what to do while dating and what should be saved for marriage only.

Everything she taught us was based on a scripture from the bible, God used her to teach us. We swallowed in all the information given to us and were longing for more. Going into a relationship, we felt as an eight-month-old infant being taught to walk without a walker, thankfully for our mom we had a little help on walking. What I find stunning is the fact that there are many women and men alike, who don’t even have the little help we had; the basics going into a relationship. We had a pastor’s wife as a mom since we were four years old. How about those women and men who came into the church on their own and their families want nothing to do with God. They seek this spiritual help in the church and become free from their problems, through God they find deliverance and happiness. Now; along comes this special someone whom they find themselves spiritually and physically attracted to...their Prince Charming or Cinderella. But they don’t know what to do not even a CLUE.

 In this blog you will find everything I learned on how to date. The do’s and don’ts, the wise sayings and inspirations, the instructions from my parents, the verses in the bible that talk about these things and so on.

So keep posted......!