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I never met Steve Harvey, and no I don't have a picture with me and him on it. There's him, then there's me...
But, I will tell you this...
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Have you ever watched "The Steve Harvey show", it's hilarious and mostly always inspirational. If you haven't watched the show yet, What planet are you?
On one of his shows he mentioned something that really had me thinking. It was that strong! He said this, and it is so true.
I want you to think about it and go with it!
WOMAN MAYBE YOU NEED TO WALK???
There is only one woman that a man will change for....meaning, if you are with a man that, cheats on you, beats on you, and does you no good, you have to have enough self worth to realize that you don't deserve that. Men need us women! To be able to have kids, to be that companion that they need, that support system that his friends can't give him. They need our tender care, our home cooked meals, our house skills, they need us for many, many reasons. The bible says: Then the Lord God said: "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him." Genesis 2:18
With that said; If the man you're with does you no good, you need to pray about it, but then talk to him at a moment that he is calm, and I say talk not nag, there's a big difference.
Let him know exactly what it is that he is doing that is making you unhappy and give him a chance to change. Give it about a month, then if he is still doing the same things, come back to him again when he is in a happy mode, and talk to him about those same issues again, this time giving an ultimatum. But, you need to realize that by doing this you may stay together or you may end up splitting. If your partner is serious about being with you, he will do what your asking, afraid to lose you. If you are not the right one for him, he will let you go. Sometimes you leaving is what it takes for him to realize that you are serious with what you demanded he change. And if he can't be without you, believe me....he'll come running back, changed!
Hi Mrs.Elsie,
ReplyDeleteThis is such a strong post. Thank you. I love the blog by the way
I saw this Steve's show, and I thought it was so good and so true.
ReplyDeletePeople can change when they choose to change. Every men and women can change for each other when they think you are the one they want to spend the rest of their life with. If they really love you they'll change to please you. If your boyfriend/girlfriend keep on giving you excuses and keep on cheating on you is because you're not "The' one for them.
Then yes, you should walk before you get hurt. Why be involved with someone that does not love you enough to change his bad habits to please you? No, you shouldn't walk, you should RUN....
Run before it's too late.
Kkkkkkk.....I love the way you put that!
ReplyDelete"No, you shouldn't walk, you should RUN....
Run before it's too late."
Kkkkkk.....I like that. Ladies and gentlemen, that's exactly what you need to do! Run!
Thank God for this blog. I'm learning alot.
ReplyDeleteI love The Steve Harvey show Mrs Elsie.
ReplyDeleteIts very helpful and inspirational indeed.I saw this show aswell.
It made me think about an experience I had before I knew Jesus.
I was dating this guy and he was very jealous, very insecure.I would get calls being questioned about my where abouts. I spoke to him when he was calm about how his past relationship was affecting ours.He seemed to understand but never stopped. He would have tantrums,send his mother to me to when things were not going right, etc But I stayed in this emotionally abusive relationship because,I did not value myself....I thought...I cannot live without him...
When I met Jesus all this changed.He showed me how valuable I am and that above all,He values me. I broke off the relationship and I am happy.Because I found my first love and now I know my worth(the price paid on the cross).
Once we understand this,we value ourselves more and this is the type of person we will attract. A man of God after God's heart to get to ours.