I have another question from one of my bloggers:
Is it wrong to kiss when dating?
My answer:
No, it is not wrong to kiss when dating. But there are guidelines to follow when kissing. Also, there has to be a purpose to the kissing. All of the details about KISSSING while dating will be in a post coming soon. So please keep coming back and be on a look out for it.
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Ladies, talk to your partner. Tell him everything you like about him and say it with interest to
show him you mean it. Enjoy your date, have fun and get to know a lot more about
each other. When the date is over, gentlemen, if possible walk your lady to the
train station or take her home but that's it. Later on that day or the next
day when you call each other, talk about your date and how much you enjoyed it.
What was your best part of the date? Ask your partner what was their best part
of the date? Talk and show your interest for the next date. Don’t forget to
pray and to still tied up all evil around you and your partner. Never stop
praying, always ask God for his protection over the two of you. In fact
before and after each date you should always pray together and
ask God to direct your date so everything can go better then expected, so God
can protect the two of you from sin so nothing wrong can happen.
Never go somewhere where there are few people, always be surrounded by
people so nothing wrong can be done between the two of you (don’t trust your flesh). You don’t necessarily have to be around people you know, but make sure
people are around. This is to prevent problems for your relationship remember: “.....to
obey is better than sacrifice.....For rebellion
is as the sin of witchcraft and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry…” 1 Samuel 15:22-23 (NKJ).
Keep doing this, keep
going on these kinds of dates, make it a habit. Call each other everyday if
possible, go on fun dates in well populated areas, hold hands until you get used to it. Ladies after
your partner makes the first move on holding your hands, its ok for you to do it
after, on the next dates whenever you feel like it. It is just more appropriate
for him to do the first moves since he is the gentleman. Just show him your
interested and let him do the rest, this way he will feel confident enough to
make the needed moves. This is a typical date and should stay this way until
further notice.
On the mean time, enjoy each other’s company by talking and having fun
getting to know your partner. See if there are still things you do not know about
each other and find out, keep talking and asking questions, there is always
something new to learn about in your partner everyday.
