In the bible
tithe represents the first fruit, it is ten percent of everything that comes
into your hands, it is the first thing that you give to God for Him to protect
the other ninety percent that you have. In the beginning, even Adam and Eve had
to give their tithe, their tithe was not to touch the tree in the middle of the
Garden of Eden, but they were allowed to touch and eat the fruits from all the
other trees. However, they robbed God and touched the forbidden fruit, look what
happened to them. God became angry and threw them out of the Garden of Eden
where everything was so perfect, all because of their disobedience. By you
giving your tithe, God gives you prosperity. It is clearly stated in the bible
that the tithe belongs to God and if you refrain from giving your tithe it is a
sin and your financial life will be a mess/destroyed. By not giving your
tithe, you are considered to be robbing God. “Bring all the tithes into the
storehouse, that there may be food in My house, and try Me now in this,"
Says the LORD of hosts, "If I will not open for you the windows of heaven
and pour out for you such blessing that there will not be room enough to
receive it.” Malachi 3:10 (NKJV). In this dating relationship the tithe is your
bodies.
For the woman, the
tithe is not to touch your boyfriend’s two private areas in anyway, which is
from his waist down, front and back (You know the two areas, stay away from there). These two
things belong to God for now until you get married. If you disobey you will
suffer the consequences. Don't be dumb to rob God.
For the men, the
tithe is not to touch your girlfriends three private areas in anyway. These
areas are her breasts, and from her waist down also, front and back. (You know these three
areas, so stay away). Don't be foolish to try to mess with God, the
consequences are fatal. It’s worth the wait, if you both are really in love
then you won’t hesitate to wait a little longer to be able to touch your husband/wife
anywhere you would like for as long as you would like when the two of you get
married.
Remember this
is only the ten percent, there is still ninety percent you are allowed to do,
you can still kiss, hug, share food and drinks, hold hands, massage each others
calves and feet, touch each others face and rub each others arms, play with
each others hair, talk, talk, talk ....... But no touching in the forbidden areas. When you give this
ten percent of your body, God will protect the other ninety from being taken
away. Obey and God will bless,
“…Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice…” 1
Samuel 15:22 (NKJ).
If you
disobey you will end up loosing your partner and most importantly your salvation,
which your partner isn’t worth no matter how much you love him/her. Be wise and
help each other out because it’s difficult. When you have money and you have to
separate your tithe its hard but if you make it a habit and remind yourself
about its meaning and the blessings that will come from it, then its not a
problem, you end up doing it with pleasure. Same thing with your relationship,
get a custom to giving tithe in your relationship and wait for the right
time to be able to do all of these things that you aren’t able to do right now.
Occasionally talk about it to your partner, reminding him/her about this covenant
with God so it will not be broken. If this vow is difficult for you, then pray
about it and ask God to help you and give you patience and self-control.
WHY???
Why can't we touch these areas at all?
The reason these areas can not be touched until marriage is that if these areas are touched then sex is at the door breaking in an entry. Once these areas are touched the spark between you gets heavier to an uncontrollable level, no matter how much you try to control yourself, when these areas are touched, its over. You can no longer hold back, it’s uncontrollable. That is when marriage comes in. But until then, KEEP YOUR DISTANCE!!!
