The reason why we tend to First
look at things in our partner that we dislike, is because we get nervous. We know
that this is something that will affect us for the rest of our lives.
Therefore, we start trying to protect ourselves by judging the one God chose
for us.
Don’t worry, God has everything
under control. You will fall in love. Maybe the same thing happened when your
partner first set eyes on you. Everything will work out just fine. God has a plan for
all of us. He chose your partner for you and you for your partner. If you still feel
nervous about it, pray, ask God to help you trust in Him, ask Him to help you
fall in love and to stop looking at what you don’t like but to help you look at
what you do like. Because physical attraction is also very important.
As mentioned before, prayer brings the result to everything. Maybe the
type of clothes your partner likes to wear is not the type of clothes you like for him/her to wear, but
he/she is a sweet person and very handsome/beautiful. Are you going to dump
that person just because of a difference in taste.
Of course not!
Style is
something that can always be altered but it’s not always that you can find such
a sweet person full of the Holy Spirit. Later on into the
relationship, pray, then little by little you can talk to your partner about it
and because the two of you will be so much in love he/she will start to change
just for you and it would be more of a pleasure then an obligation for your
partner to do this for you.
Helpful article! I had always been nervous about what the partner that God have for me will say about me not liking to eat meat. By know that you said this I believe that the partner God have for me will look at the important things of me, not things that are not important. Because being a vegetarian is not so important than being a woman of God.
ReplyDeleteYou're right Treicy.
ReplyDeleteBeing a woman of God is what comes first.
Everything else that is physical can be gotten used to or can be changed.
Your partner may just get used to it and may even learn to eat like a vegetarian. Or.....he just may be able to convince you to eat meat........
this is a very important message, thank you Mrs Elsie, i will put it into practice.
ReplyDeleteDear Mrs . Elsie
ReplyDeleteThis message was posted long time but I am so glad I found it today and it doesn't really matter how long it was posted.. what is important here is that it brought life into my love life. difference in taste is something I have always had problems with. for me my man had to be like this perfect gentlemen I see on Magazines. My boyfriend's style never did please me but with THIS message, I will start praying and with time and Faith I will love him more and he will change. I will take care of the Man God has given Me without comparing him to other guys who don't even have nothing to do with the Lord. God bless YOU more Mrs. Elsie to keep helping us to become better woman of GOD. Beijinhos