BREAKING NEWS...Treat yourself to a Make-Over (Men)

Men need Make-Over's too. You need to look and feel at your best. Some men only walk around with Jeans, T-Shirt and sneakers everyday. That gets old!

Have you ever heard the saying 'Dress for the occasion'? Every where you go is a different occasion. If you are going to church, that calls for formal wear. Going out with friends, then yes....Wear your jeans. My point is; Men need to look good too. No woman wants a man with a manicure so overdue, that his cuticles are so long they overlap his actual nail. Women also don't want a man that dresses poorly and wears jeans everywhere he goes. Women want men that is masculine but also takes care of himself.

Yes men, you too could treat yourself to a Make-over, you'll be surprised how relaxing this will all be for you. These are great methods to relieve stress as well. Whether you are single, dating or married. Try them out!

Men treat yourself to a Make-Over:

* Take a day off of work.

(Work is not the only thing that matters. There are other things out there worth your attention too)

* Go to a spa for a massage

(You'll be surprised at how many men go to the spa for a massage)

* Get your nails done

(Every nail salon has men manicure and pedicure. Men have nails too, and your cuticles grow just as much as women's do. I know tons of men who get their nails done. Tons...)

*Buy cologne and WEAR it.
(So many men don't wear cologne, one thing that draws a women's attention, is a man that smells good)

*Get that unibrow taken care of

(I am against men doing their eyebrows. Most of the times when they do it, it looks to feminine. But, ...boy oh boy... Some guys have one connected eyebrow. That's not OK. Go to the salon and have them just remove the unibrow. Nothing more)

* Find out what your occasions are, and dress for the occasion.

(Quit wearing jeans and sneakers everywhere. Change it up a bit, and you'll surprise yourself on how you look)

* Then go out for a nice night out with your girlfriend or on a romantic date with your wife. 

This Make-Over will feel rejuvenating, relaxing and make you feel good about yourself. You may think these ideas are absurd. Or that no men do these things. But you are so wrong. To the contrary most men do at least three or four things from this list on the regular. So you won't be the only one. Believe me!

For tips on how to take care of yourself properly and what to wear

go to  http://hairfashionandbeauty.blogspot.com/

Appearance is important! To you and to those around you.

If you invest in yourself every morning before you step out the house, you'll look great and feel great.

When you don't treat yourself right, or fix yourself up, people can tell, it's written all over you. By the clothes you just found hanging around the room and just threw on. It's noticeable!

Again, Appearance is important! To you and to those around you.

Treat yourself to a Make-over (Women)

Some times you just need to treat yourself to a Make-Over.

In our day to day life we go through so much stress, something makes us mad, or sad. We get tired, feel exhausted, and not to mention how miserable we feel during our menstrual cycle. And sometimes all these day to day stresses cause us to have low self-esteem.

For you to be happy with your partner, you need to first be happy with yourself.
If you are single or dating, even if you are married
Treat yourself to a Make-Over:
* Take a day off just for you
* Go to a spa for a relaxing massage
* Make an appointment to get your hair done (try something new)
* Have a professional make -up artist do your make-up
* Get your nails done
* Buy a new dress
* Then go out for a nice night out on the town with a couple of friends (leave the kids with a baby sitter)

You'll see how rejuvenating this feels. How relaxed and good you'll feel about yourself. You'll see how beautiful you are inside, but also on the outside. You just need to give yourself the investment and make an effort to be and feel beautiful before you walk out the door every morning. If you say, "I'm broke, I can't afford to have a Make-Over" that's not true.

Free version to Treat yourself to a Make-Over:
* Take a day off just for you
* You tube 'How to do a facial' and 'How to do a leg massage' These are two massages you can do on yourself and for free
* Do your own hair. Take the time to treat and condition your hair properly and do a different hair style
* You tube video's on 'How to properly apply make-up' and learn how to do your own make-up
* Do your own pedicure and manicure at home......YES Paint your nails, clear is not an option!
* Choose out your best dress in the closet
* Prepare a nice dinner at home and invite a couple of close friends over to have girls talk and sing karaoke

For tips on how to take care of your hair, do your make-up and dress fashionably, go to  http://hairfashionandbeauty.blogspot.com/

Appearance is important! To you and to those around you.
If you invest in yourself every morning before you step out the house, you'll look beautiful and you'll feel like a million bucks. Plus, those around you won't stop commenting on how beautiful you look. Sometimes what holds a woman back from getting the right man, is her low self-esteem. If you don't treat yourself right and don't consider yourself to be a beautiful jewel, how will any man see that in you?

When you don't treat yourself right, or fix yourself up, people can tell, it's written all over you. By your same boring hairstyle everyday, by the clothes you just found hanging around the room and just threw on. You never wear make up, you never fix your nails, much less paint them. It's noticeable!
Again, Appearance is important! To you and to those around you.

In search of the right person...by Renato Cardoso

Taken from www.renatocardoso.com author of 'Bullet-proof marriage' I loved this post, and found it would be helpful to you.
This website has some good incites on dating and on marriage. Check it out...

In search of the right person

There are so many myths and lies in the world of relationships that it’s no wonder people have suffered so much in this area. One of these myths is the idea of the “right person.”

“Why are you still single?”
“I haven’t found the right person yet.”
Ring a bell?
The idea that there is only one right person in the world which perfectly fits with another is the reason why many people are still single, while others are unhappy in their marriage.
Single people dream of the person that will fulfill all the requirements on the list they idealized.
Married people fight a battle against their doubts, which question if they married the right person. After all, they have so many problems.
This idea, however, is not plausible mathematically, logically, or spiritually.
Mathematically the numbers add up. Statistics show that there are more single women than men. If we were to compare the number of single men to single women in the world, presuming that your perfect match is somewhere out there, someone’s going to be alone, like in musical chairs.
Logically it doesn’t make any sense. If a newlywed wife loses her husband in an accident and becomes a widow, does that mean that now there’s no point in her looking for anyone else to marry because the “right person,” the only one who could make her happy, died?
Spiritually there’s no biblical basis to this. If Eve was the “right person” for Adam then God made a mistake. It’s interesting that when God created woman, he described her as a “helper comparable to him.”
When the apostle Paul mentioned if a Christian woman becomes a widow, he said “she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.” (1 Corinthians 7:39) That is to say, not only does she get a second chance but she is also free and responsible to make her own choice — as long as the person is of the same faith. So where does that idea that there is only one right person in the world and the fantasy that God is the one who chooses the person we’re going to marry?
The truth is that we’re responsible for our choices. God gave us intelligence to identify who is compatible and who is not. And He institutes rules to produce a happy relationship. Break them, and there isn’t a “right” person in the world that will make you happy. The key to a happy marriage is not to find the right person; it’s to do the right things.
Do the right things to find a person who is compatible with you.

• Expand your circle of friends
• Choose with your head and not your heart
• Allow yourself to begin a friendship
• If things go well, begin to date with the intention of getting to know the person better (not to go to bed with them)
• If when you get to know everything about the person and see living with them for the rest of your life would not work, nip the relationship in the bud, with no remorse.
• If you see the fundamental qualities you need, then move forward to the engagement and then marriage

It is not magic, luck or a miracle. It is an act of intelligence.

P.S Of course, if you already read Bullet-Proof marriage, you already know this.
 

Can I move in with a guy who promised to make me his wife?

I apologize for not posting in a while.....I know you have been patiently waiting :)
I have been receiving numerous questions to be answered from bloggers, once again, thanks for being bold and sending me your questions.

As always, I will make sure to remain anonymous as I post your question and answer it here on my blog

Bloggers question:
"Can I move in with a guy who has promised to make me his wife? He has given me a ring, so we just need to set a date to get married. Can we have sex?"

Dear bloggers,
 The answer to your questions are short and simple. Also straight to the point.
No, you should not move in with you boyfriend even if he promised to get married to you. If he proposed to you and gave you an engagement ring, then he is your fiancé now. But fiancé does not make you a married couple yet. You need to show him that you want to follow the right morals, that you want to do things the right way.

In the Bible it says:
'It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband'
1 Corinthians 7:1-2

If you guys want to have sex, then get married. If you want to move in with each other, then get married first. Most men make so many promises first, just to have sex, then you sit around waiting for that marriage that you've always dreamed off and most of the times, it doesn't happen.

Before getting married you have to see if the two of you are the right fit. Do you love him? does he love you? Are the two of you financially established? can he support you as a man? Is God in first place ? If so and you are desperate to move in and have sex, then get married this week. If he promised to make you his wife and you want to move in together, then get married immediately. That way you won't sin in lust for each other. But, if you say, no, we aren't financially ready for a marriage, he's not ready to get married now, or visa versa. We still getting to know each other.......then wait! Get everything in order first, then get married.

Moving in with each other and having sex is something you do when you are married. That is a big deal before God. Sex is becoming one with your mate. How are you going to have sex and become one, when your marriage hasn't even been presented to God?

So my answer to your question is NO! No you should not move in with your fiancé until you get married first, and NO you can not have sex until you get married. Sex is to be preserved for your husband/wife, and since you aren't married yet, then you should wait until you do get married.

I hope this answer was helpful to you. You know who you are......

Again, Thanks for the question