What's my complex ? (5)

• Complex about age – Some say ‘I’m not a spring chicken anymore.’ I’m well over my marrying years, no one will want me now; I’m too old. I have an entire head of gray hair. I’m in my 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70's. Or I’m too young I cant find true love now because no one will take me seriously, I’m too young to be happy and find true love. You wonder, how can you find true love when you're getting older and older each year and everyone now a days is looking for young love. You fear you won't be able to find someone compatible to you.

As you can see in the pic above, Love can come to anyone who put's their complexes aside. Even if you are in your 90's.

What's my Complex? (4)

• Complex about nationality – Some complexes are because of the person’s nationality. Some people think no one will like me because I am African or Latin, Caribbean or Asian, Greek or European, Egyptian or Indian. I'm not as pretty Beyonce because I'm not black. I'm not as handsome as Channing Tatum because I'm not white. No one will want me. As ridiculous as this may sound It’s true! I know someone who thinks just like this. Sometimes this even creates low self esteem because you don't think people from other nationalities will like you.

What's my Complex? (3)

• Complex about background - Some people’s complex is the lifestyle they use to live. They're mentality is ‘no one will ever fall in love with me because of my background’ "if they find out about my past they won't want to be with me." 'I was married before and my marriage failed' or "I am pregnant or I have a child/children". 'I did some bad things in the past', "I am incapable of keeping a relationship", 'I've been single for so long.....and so on

What's my complex? (2)

• Complex about weight - Others have complexes about their weight, its either I weigh too much or I weigh too little. I need to put on some weight because I am disappearing, or I need to loose weight before it becomes dangerous for my own health. "I'm too fat and nobody will love me" or "I'm too skinny  and all people see in me is bones"

Stop by tomorrow for "What's my complex? (3)?

What's my Complex?

One thing I've noticed, is that many people are hindered or held back from finding true love because of their own complexes. I have seen with my own eyes and have known people that could have been or could still be blessed in their love life but they aren’t. Not because the devil is blocking their love life but instead it is because of their own complexes that they impede God from blessing them or giving them the man or woman of their dreams. These people need to seriously (Get Rid of their complexes). If they don’t they will remain single forever and will never be able to go forward in life. In all aspects especially in their love life.

   People I have known have complexes in many different ways,  there are many different types of complexes that exist. I will name a few:

• Complex about appearance - some people’s complex is the way they look whether it is their hair, eyes, nose, lips, hands, feet, body shape, ears or anything else they can imagine. They have a general complex about the way they look. Their thought is ` No! I have nappy hair, or my hair is too short  or too thin and brittle. My eyes are too wide apart from each other or too close together. I’m too black or too white. I have a big, crooked or flat nose, my lips are too big or I have no lip its just a line. My hands and feet are so small or too big, I have no figure or I have too much of a figure. I’m too short or I’m too tall, my ears are too small or too big. My head is an awkward shape or every other complaint about their appearance imaginable.

come back tomorrow for the next complex thats out there !