When should my boyfriend see me without Make-up on?

I think the sooner the better!

 I love Make-Up, but some girls just take it too far. Some women act as if Make -up is their face. They won't be seen for a second without Make -up on, and I think that's wrong.

Make-up was created to give your face a little touch up, to add a little glow or light color to your face. ITS NOT A MASK. I'm sure we all have seen women with so much Make -up on that they look like a clown.

While you're dating, you two are getting to know each other. You two have to be your self as much as possible, that's the only way to see if the two of you are compatible with each other. You don't want to pass the wrong message. The message that your not secure of your natural beauty so you feel you have to wear Make - Up day in and day out to cover your imperfections.

Who's perfect?

Plus, if you are never seen without Make-Up on, If and when you get married with this man. He will see you without Make-up at some point. And it may come as a shock because he never saw you without it and that "Make-up" became your face to him.

So my advise to women who won't be caught dead without Make-up on- Go natural a couple of times. You were born with out Make up on, so believe me, you'll survive.

To those women who won't be caught dead with Make-up on- I'll repeat, Make-up was created to give your face a little touch up, to add a little glow or light color to your face. so use it once in a while. There's nothing worse then to be at a fancy formal event and you're dressed so glamorous and hair fixed, but theirs nothing on your face. Don't get me wrong. This post is not against Make Up. Its just against you being addicted to it to the point that you feel ugly without it.

I always say "Embrace your beauty"

My answer to the controversial topic

Is it OK for my boyfriend to help me around with chores? (my responsibility)

Yes, It is ok, as long as he is helping you and not doing it for you. If you are running late or are about to go out and you are held back by a couple of chores, YES, you can ask for a little help. And if he's willing to help, then why not???

But, if he doesn't want to help, that's where it is wrong for you to be pushy and needy demanding for his help. Your chores are your chores, not his. If he doesn't want to help, there is nothing you can do about it and He wouldn't be wrong. This even applies for marriage!

I'm going to give you an example of my husband and I. My husband helps me when I need help; Almost ALL the time. That is a character trait I love about him. It comes naturally from him, whether I ask him to help me or not. Sometimes, he sees me struggling to do or finish something and he offers to help on his own. It doesn't matter what it is. Just between you and me....My husband can throw it down in house cleaning! If we have to move and I'm running up and down getting things ready for the move. My husband almost always starts helping me to clean the house.

My sisters husband on the other hand, doesn't help clean the house when they are moving, but he helps by completely packing his own suitcase. That's one less thing she has to worry about.

I also only know one other pastor that helps his wife. This Pastor/husband would help his wife in anything needed. And never once did I see the wife asking him to help. This desire to help her would come from him. They had a small child, and this pastor would help his wife with things like cleaning, cooking up something simple for them to eat, it was small things, but things that count.

Finding a man that likes to help his woman is VERY RARE. Don't get me wrong. This isn't the husbands job, and not every husband/man does it. Some husbands don't help the wife at all with their chores. And that's OK according to the Bible. The Bible says that all types of house work and to care for the family is a wives job. That's why we can't impose on our man to do our job. But some men like to help their woman, and to me I wouldn't bust his bubble.

Is it OK for my boyfriend to help me around with chores?

Controversial topic!

Is it OK for my boyfriend to help me around with chores? (My responsibility)

(Chores meaning chores......
A few examples:
1. If you at home with the family for a nice family dinner and your boyfriend came over . If your chore is to wash the dishes, is it ok for him to help you.
2. If you have a responsibility (chore) around the church, is it ok for him to help you with them?
3. .....And the list of chores goes on.... )

I want to hear from you. What do you think?
Is it OK Or not OK and why you think so.
Let me know what you think by commenting in the comment bar below.

I want you all to comment. I'll only make my next post, when is see your comments :)
My next post will have my answer to this question....

Marry or dream of marrying?

Post copied from Mrs. Cristianes website. I found it very helpful and relevant to this blog.
Check out her blog for more on how to be a woman of God
http://www.cristianecardoso.com/en/2013/12/11/marry-or-dream-of-marrying/



I come from a time when girls still dreamed of getting married and building a family. During the engagement period, we wouldn’t just think about the wedding dress and party, but we’d take time to learn how to be a good homemaker and wife. Obviously, many of those young girls are now divorced and some don’t even believe in love anymore, but this does not mean that all are in the same situation…
Today most young people do not dream about getting married, and I don’t think it’s because they want to enjoy life or invest in a career, as many of them say… but to safeguard themselves. There are so many broken marriages, that it’s much easier not to get married and have your heart broken by a dream that faded away. However, they love watching and reading novels; they like the idea of love and fidelity; they admire long-lasting marriages.
The question is: Which one is better, to invest in a dream or to hide it not to lose it and never actually see it come true?
I find it easy to answer this question—and I believe you do too. All of us would rather invest in a dream (even if it goes wrong) than live the rest of your lives wondering what would have happened if we had tried.
The same is true of our love life. The good news is, today things are much easier and marriage should no longer be considered a shot in the dark. There is the Love Talk Show, as well as the Bulletproof Marriage book, to help you avoid problems and prepare you to live your dream.

My twin

I know this has nothing to do with "HOW TO DATE GOD'S WAY", but today is my twins birthday. And part of who I am today is because of her.





Happy Birthday!
You are the best birthday gift I could ever ask for, a life long gift that keeps giving back.

I love you so much!
But you already know that!

I love the fact that we share everything together. You are always a part of me and I love you for that. Your my other half. No one else can really say that because their not identical twins.... We share a special something that no one could understand. I'm such a part of you as you are a part of me.

Life as I know it wouldn't be the same if I didn't have you to share it with.

I love you my twinny twin twin. And I'm so glad that we share everything from our face to our birthday. It couldn't get any better than that.

Happy Birthday Mana
I Love You................

What areas are forbidden?

   In the bible tithe represents the first fruit, it is ten percent of everything that comes into your hands, it is the first thing that you give to God for Him to protect the other ninety percent that you have. In the beginning, even Adam and Eve had to give their tithe, their tithe was not to touch the tree in the middle of the Garden of Eden, but they were allowed to touch and eat the fruits from all the other trees. However, they robbed God and touched the forbidden fruit, look what happened to them. God became angry and threw them out of the Garden of Eden where everything was so perfect, all because of their disobedience. By you giving your tithe, God gives you prosperity. It is clearly stated in the bible that the tithe belongs to God and if you refrain from giving your tithe it is a sin and your financial life will be a mess/destroyed. By not giving your tithe, you are considered to be robbing God. “Bring all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be food in My house, and try Me now in this," Says the LORD of hosts, "If I will not open for you the windows of heaven and pour out for you such blessing that there will not be room enough to receive it.” Malachi 3:10 (NKJV). In this dating relationship the tithe is your bodies.

 

  

   For the woman, the tithe is not to touch your boyfriend’s two private areas in anyway, which is from his waist down, front and back (You know the two areas, stay away from there). These two things belong to God for now until you get married. If you disobey you will suffer the consequences. Don't be dumb to rob God.

   For the men, the tithe is not to touch your girlfriends three private areas in anyway. These areas are her breasts, and from her waist down also, front and back. (You know these three areas, so stay away). Don't be foolish to try to mess with God, the consequences are fatal. It’s worth the wait, if you both are really in love then you won’t hesitate to wait a little longer to be able to touch your husband/wife anywhere you would like for as long as you would like when the two of you get married.

   Remember this is only the ten percent, there is still ninety percent you are allowed to do, you can still kiss, hug, share food and drinks, hold hands, massage each others calves and feet, touch each others face and rub each others arms, play with each others hair, talk, talk, talk ....... But no touching in the forbidden areas. When you give this ten percent of your body, God will protect the other ninety from being taken away. Obey and God will bless,

 “…Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice…” 1 Samuel 15:22          (NKJ).

 

   If you disobey you will end up loosing your partner and most importantly your salvation, which your partner isn’t worth no matter how much you love him/her. Be wise and help each other out because it’s difficult. When you have money and you have to separate your tithe its hard but if you make it a habit and remind yourself about its meaning and the blessings that will come from it, then its not a problem, you end up doing it with pleasure. Same thing with your relationship, get a custom to giving tithe in your relationship and wait for the right time to be able to do all of these things that you aren’t able to do right now. Occasionally talk about it to your partner, reminding him/her about this covenant with God so it will not be broken. If this vow is difficult for you, then pray about it and ask God to help you and give you patience and self-control.

WHY???
   Why can't we touch these areas at all?
The reason these areas can not be touched until marriage is that if these areas are touched then sex is at the door breaking in an entry. Once these areas are touched the spark between you gets heavier to an uncontrollable level, no matter how much you try to control yourself, when these areas are touched, its over. You can no longer hold back, it’s uncontrollable. That is when marriage comes in. But until then, KEEP YOUR DISTANCE!!!